There’s nothing better than a slow, sensual, steamy kiss is there? Sadly the smooch is something that tends to get seriously overlooked sometimes.
Kissing is something that is so natural and instinctual to us human beings that we know how to do it without ever being taught. From birth we understand that kissing (and being kissed) is a sign of affection. We associate kissing with strong emotions and, as we grow older, sexual chemistry.
But when sex is on offer, we tend to rush through the kissing part and get straight to the naked part.
This is all well and good, but did you know that bringing back the humble kiss can have a majorly positive impact on your sex life? (Oh and it can also give you better orgasms too!).
If you’re staying in tonight, get comfy on the sofa and have a shifting session with your other half. Here’s how to turn up the heat and make sure those kisses end with an amazing orgasm…
A better sex life could be as simple as smooching your other half
1. Choose the perfect setting: If you’re planning on having a sneaky make-out session with your man it’s important to set the scene. For example, make sure that you’re somewhere comfy and private. Turn the lights down low, switch off the telly and light some candles if you feel like it. When it comes to kissing, privacy is essential because it helps you to build the sexual tension (and your connection) with your other half.
2. Build sexual tension: Start off your make-out session by creating a sexy, intimate atmosphere. Sit down next to him, talk softly in a low voice, touch his hands, “accidentally” brush against him, lick your lips – do everything you can to build sexual tension but don’t kiss him just yet.
3. Get really, really close: When the atmosphere is successfully charged with sexual energy, take things one step further. Cuddle up closer and touch his face. Gently run your hands over his body and slide yourself onto his lap. Tell him how sexy he is and how much you want him. You can be as tame (or as vulgar) as you like here.
4. Don’t kiss him immediately: Sometimes the best thing about a kiss is the anticipation, so lean in like you’re going to kiss him, but don’t. Instead move to his ear and whisper something to him (let your lips brush against his ear ever-so-slightly as you do this).
When you feel like the timing is right, lean in and give him a slow, sensual and passionate kiss. Have an epic make-out session and again, when it feels right, suggest about moving things to the bedroom.
